Raise E.Q (Emotional
Intelligence)
Emotional intelligence is the way to
nurture children through following factors:
Some tips for promoting emotional
intelligence in the classroom and home given by progressive schools located at
expressway Noida:
·
Show
respect for each individual child’s feelings, and remember his negative
feelings are indications of unmet emotional needs.
·
Do
not label your children negatively. Avoid ‘shoulds’ and avoid subjective
labels.
·
Instead
of saying ‘students ‘try to address them as ‘children’ at school. Best nursery school in noida extension
·
Help
the children label their feelings properly. Teach them a wide range of feeling
words.
·
Show
empathy, concern and care for your children. Ask them how they feel and ‘What
would help you feel better’.
·
Teach
them to solve their own problems using empathy, compassion and mutual respect
for each other’s feelings.
·
Support
their individual needs, talents, potential and interests.
·
Reassure
the children that it is okay to be honest about their feelings. Tell them if
they feel hateful, hurtful, vengeful, violent or destructive, it is okay to say
it. Best
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·
To
lighten up the tension, set a goal of finding 3-30 things that everyone can
agree on .Use humour.
·
Don’t
lecture them as they are expressing themselves.
·
Let
them express themselves without showing disapproval, shock, horror.Do not
invalidate or judge anything they say. If you want them to open up, turn off
your inner judge.
·
Don’t
add to their pain, stress, discomfort and fear by trying to control their
behavior through saying things like ‘Look me in the eyes when I am talking to
you. Stop playing with your hair. Take your finger out of your mouth.
·
While
interacting to your children it is important to keep a check on your language.
·
Label
your feelings rather than your children. Say “I am confused about why you are
not doing your work’ rather than ‘you are just being lazy’.
·
Express
your emotions rather than issuing commands. For example-‘I feel bad when I see
you taking things from others without asking. I am afraid that you might lose
your friendship.
·
Learn
to take responsibility for your own feeling rather than blaming them on your
children .For example-‘I felt embarrassed when the principal was here’. Rather
than ‘You embarrassed me in front of principal’.
·
First
validate the children feelings before addressing their behaviour.For
example-‘It looks like you are feeling little restless today. It looks like you
really don’t want to come inside.
‘ If teachers make comments to kids
that are personally challenging or insulting to them as a person ,kids will
never look at their own behaviour’.The connected approach, on the other hand
,gets positive results ‘hundreds of times’.
These practices are being involved in
most of progressive schools in expressway Noida.
Faculty of primary level in JBM School Noida is
sensitized to treat children on similar lines with empathetic attitude
concludes senior secondary schools in Noida.
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